Thursday, July 07, 2011
♥; The Grass Is Not Greener On The Other Side
Life takes a toll on all of us. Everybody have commitments.
But how do we draw a line on our social life, personal life, and business?
Some are involved with full-time school.
Some are involved with part-time school and work.
Some are involved with full-time school and full-time work.
And others? They just work all the time.
Life is unfair; that is somewhat true as the saying goes.
I have people who I care about who has school on a daily basis and they always complain about being tired (if they don't complain, i can see/know that they are tired).
I have people who are working and they are also, always, tired.
What about those people who goes to school and work? Damn right. Even more tired.
Projects, CAs, tests, assignments, and the list goes on.
So when does it stop? When?
I have no answer. It doesn't seem to stop, and it is a very sad situation.
When was the last time you told someone you love them?
And REALLY mean it?
When was the last time you looked your parents in the eye and tell them you love them?
When was the last time you went out with your siblings?
When was the last time you spent time with your close friends?
When was the last time you did NOTHING with your most favourite person and felt that that was the best thing ever?
And for those of you who are in love, do you really really love them?
Do you still get butterflies? Or are they all gone?
Do you only shop/windowshop/watch movie/have dinner/walk and hold hands and go home?
Do you talk? Like really really talk?
Do you talk about serious issues? Or do you talk about non-serious issues only?
Do you talk about random things?
Do you make them laugh? Do you make them smile?
When they smile, does it make you want to smile?
When they talk, do you listen? Or do you look at them like they're the bestest thing that's happened to you?
When they talk, do you get distracted and look at them in such an absorbed manner and wonder why you're so in love with them?
Do you joke around with them?
Do you tease them?
Guys and girls, texting aside, have u ever called and wished your other half good morning/afternoon/night?
Or anything random? and really mean it? Not just for the sake of it?
Guys, how do u ask girls out? text them? call them? ask them in person?
What do you say? "Wanna go out this wkend?" or "Are u free?" or "Would you like to go out with me?"
Girls, how do u answer? "Yea sure." or "Uhuhh why not." or "Okay." or "Yes, I would love to! :)"
Whether it's a normal meet-up/outing/date, guys, there is no excuse to ask a girl out like you're asking your buddy out... and girls, there is no excuse to answer the guy's qn in a way like you're meeting your best gal friend.
You're in love? Prove it, enjoy it. Don't turn things into a chore.
Do it because u love to and want to,and not bcos ur forced to.
Because when u do something that comes from your heart, the other half can tell and/or feel it, and they'll appreciate you even more.
Smile more everyday. Frown less (unless ur staring upclose at something and making your eyes really small and trying to scrutinize on an object of your attention.... either that, or u just tried to make a failed attempt at funny faces).
Oh, and flirting doesn't only happen before a rship.
Flirting doesn't stop.
Don't stop flirting with your other half.
Flirt with them (trust me, they'll love the attention, be it guy or girl).
Otherwise, u can try teasing.. and a whole lot of staring. :)
(Rmbr, it must go both ways.)
But don't just stare..... Do something about it ;)
Gosh, all these typing....
My anger is suddenly all gone. [Yeshie, I was feeling angry, dun ask why.]
Thank goodness :)
With much love and plenty of chocolates,
The Imperfect & Very Silly & Stubborn Girl, The One Who Loves To Dance, The One Who Yearns To Have A White Vespa But Has Phobia of Riding/Driving, The One Who Wants To Get A Hot Pink Bicycle With A Pretty Basket At The Front, The One Who Is Human,
Sahidah.
[P.S. I love you.]
The Dancer ♥
